DON'T BE AFRAID TO TALK Ask a question if you are in doubt about something. Ideally, of course, we have a dominant yet sensitive partner who knows if he is pushing the right buttons and where he should be touching us. โ๐ปะะพ since not all men are so sensitive and interpret women's signals correctly or maybe women don't always show it clearly, communication is simply essential - it's the alpha and omega of good sex.