Ok...I broke down and sent him this. It's not too risqué, is it? Anyway, he brought up with his wife that perhaps they need to talk about divorce. She got really mad and wouldn't hear it. But later, agreed. It's till early, so no idea if it happens or what. And tbh, she had an affair in the past (one that he knows about, could be more), but they supposedly worked it out - kinda - he said is was difficult before and more difficult after, and really never was resolved, and his marriage has long had a pall hanging over it. I asked him if maybe it's better we don't see each other at our next conference (it's in palm springs, I thought it was in Vegas again, later this month), given all the stuff going on. But he was adamant about wanting to see me, and was honestly looking forward to it😆 I guess he'll owe me then. It's the LEAST I can do, righttt???