To be honest, my husband enjoys having a vixen wife. Says in the end, he wins - always has an oversexed lusty housewife in his bed. He likes taking pics as I get ready to go have sex with my BF, wants to know if it's thrilling to me. But honestly, I'm still always afraid to tell him I am! Just the training that you shouldn't tell your husband or BF you think about sex with other men - all women do, but never reveal. My husband will get mad if I don't confess that I really do like it. He'll order me to lower my panties and show him, which always gives me away, and he's all "I knew it. Such a bad wife. Terrible"